Mediation helps ensure privacy during divorce

On Behalf of | Jan 16, 2025 | Firm News

Mediation is a process where a neutral third party, called a mediator, helps couples resolve their divorce issues outside of court. This method is often preferred because it’s faster and less expensive than going to court. Another key benefit is that it allows couples to keep the details of their divorce private.

Unlike court proceedings, which are public records, mediation sessions are confidential. This means that the sensitive details of a couple’s divorce are not exposed to the public, providing a level of privacy and discretion that many find comforting during such a personal and stressful time.

Examples of details you may want to keep private

The details of each divorce vary, but some standard details couples like to keep private include:

  1. Value of their estate: Couples often prefer to keep the total value of their assets and properties private to avoid unwanted attention or even security risks.
  2. Grounds for divorce: The reasons behind a divorce can be deeply personal and sometimes embarrassing.
  3. Child custody arrangements: Decisions about where children will live and how the parents raise them are sensitive topics. It also protects the children’s privacy.
  4. Public exposure: For celebrities or public figures, a divorce usually attracts significant media attention.

Manages the fallout

Even when the couple are not public figures or celebrities, discretion can still avoid uncomfortable situations. Most importantly, it helps shield children from the emotional stress and confusion that can arise from knowing too much about their parents’ split. Keeping it private allows the family to maintain a sense of normalcy and security during a turbulent time.

It can also avoid hearing unwanted opinions and judgments. By keeping the process private, couples can prevent family and friends from taking sides. It also reduces conflicts arising from misunderstandings or miscommunications among family and friends. Overall, maintaining privacy and discretion during a divorce can lead to a smoother, less contentious process, allowing both spouses to move forward with their lives more peacefully.

Working with a lawyer during mediation

While mediation is a private and less adversarial process, it is still essential to work with a lawyer. They can provide legal advice and protect your rights and interests throughout the mediation process. They can help you understand the legal implications of your decisions and ensure that any agreements made are fair and legally binding. Of course, they can draft the final divorce agreement so it complies with state laws and covers all necessary details.